a bsegerct :I just realized he's 20. That was my favorite age because it was the most confident, if not cocky, I've ever felt. Once I hit 30, it's been nonstop stress and anxiety about the future. Life's too short to be shy in one's carefree youth when nothing else matters but the present moment.
a bsegerct :Shy guys are the worst, IMO. Maybe that's because I'm an extrovert, but if the natural chemistry isn't there at the start, it's just a downward hill into awkwardness. Of course the sex is bad, followed by uncomfortable silence, ultimately ending in a walk home of shame.